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Juggling parenting and study

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Balancing study, parenting and everything else life throws at you isn't easy.  Juggling competing priorities can leave you feeling stretched, exhausted and wondering whether you're doing enough. The good news is that small changes to the way you approach study and daily life can make a big difference.

Our Student Counsellors have recorded a webinar for student parents, drawing on their own experiences as parents and many years supporting hundreds of students.

The webinar shares practical advice to help you manage study, family commitments and your own wellbeing. Read a quick summary below or watch the webinar at a time that suits you.

Aim for progress, not perfection


There's no such thing as the perfect parent or the perfect student.


Many student parents put huge pressure on themselves to keep up with study, family responsibilities, work and household tasks. When there are only so many hours in the day, it is easy to feel like you are falling behind.


Instead of aiming to do everything perfectly, focus on what's achievable today.

Be realistic about what time you have available and set small, achievable goals. That might be writing a few hundred words, reading one chapter or spending 20 minutes on an assignment is still progress.

Protect your energy


Time isn't the only thing student parents are managing. Energy is a limited resource too.


Before taking on another commitment, pause and ask yourself whether you genuinely have the capacity. Sometimes saying no to one thing allows you to say yes to the things that matter most.


Creating boundaries around your time and energy can help reduce overwhelm and make study feel more manageable.

Make the invisible, visible


One of the biggest challenges for parents is the mental load, all the planning, organising, remembering and decision-making that happens behind the scenes every day. Things like:

•    Managing appointments and school activities
•    Organising childcare
•    Planning meals and shopping
•    Keeping track of household responsibilities
•    Coordinating family schedules


When everything is stored in your head, it can be exhausting. Writing down everything you are carrying can help identify tasks that could be delegated, postponed or simply let go.

Prioritise sleep wherever possible


Good sleep plays an important role in concentration, learning, mood and overall wellbeing.


Perfect sleep isn't always realistic, especially those with young children, but even small improvements can make a meaningful difference. Establishing consistent routines, limiting distractions before bed and taking opportunities to rest when possible can help support both your wellbeing and your study performance.


Remember that support is available


Balancing parenting and study is challenging because you're managing multiple important roles, not because you are doing anything wrong.


Sometimes what helps most is knowing you are not alone. Other times, it might be having a conversation with someone who understands, learning a new strategy or accessing additional support or flexibility.


Think about reaching out to  family, friends, childcare providers, employers, classmates or university services. Seeking extra help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

You can also book free short-term counselling with us to find a way forward.

You don't have to do everything alone


Successful student parents don't do it all by themselves. They build support networks, adjust expectations and look for practical ways to share the load.


There'll be times when study takes priority and other times when family needs to come first. That's normal. The goal isn't perfect balance. It's finding an approach that works for you and your family.


Watch the full webinar


For more practical and useful advice watch the full webinar when it suits you.